Looking Beyond the Milestone: Your Private Pre-Marriage Course

Invest in the Partnership, Not Just the Event

While much of your time may be spent choosing the "rock," the perfect photographer, or planning the nursery, these are details for a specific moment in time. A private pre-marriage course is an investment in the decades of shared life that follow.

I offer custom-made private pre-marriage courses designed to safeguard your bond and equip you with the relational skills needed to thrive. While traditionally chosen by those planning a wedding, this course is equally suitable and valuable for any couple transitioning to a long-term commitment (whether in a church or not), such as moving in together or starting a family. It is important to note that what I offer in this course is not therapy; it does not imply there is anything "wrong" or that you will be psychoanalysed. Instead, it is a hands on, educational experience where I act as an expert support to help you prepare for the practical realities of a life together.

The Power of Proactive Preparation

Whether you are preparing for a wedding, moving in together, or expecting your first child, sharing space and a future with another human being brings inevitable challenges. Even the strongest couples can benefit from a structured way to merge two lives, two histories, and two sets of quirks into one harmonious household.

Front-loading your relationship with professional preparation is simply smart "relational insurance." It is far easier to build a strong foundation now than to try and repair a cracked one years down the line. I help you see the pitfalls before you fall into them, drawing on my experience with couples who wish they had started these conversations sooner.

The Core Pillars of the Course

I guide you through the "big conversations" that are often overlooked in the excitement of a new transition:

Merging Two Worlds: We navigate how to combine your different backgrounds, letting go of negative influences from the past while embracing the positive aspects you both choose to bring forward. Together, you will learn how to create your own unique traditions and "rules" as you build your own family unit.

Communication Mastery: Learn to "talk so your partner will listen and listen so your partner will talk." We identify your unique strengths and ensure you both feel seen and heard, even when you don't agree.

The "Money Talk": We transform financial discussions from a source of tension into a collaborative strategy that preserves both individual autonomy and collective security.

Sustaining the Spark: We specifically discuss how to navigate different sexual appetites and keep intimacy alive as life gets busy or stressful. This involves ensuring physical touch remains a daily point of connection and being mindful of how digital habits can impact your bond.

Parenthood & Transition: For those becoming parents, we discuss maintaining your identity as a couple after children arrive and navigating sensitive topics such as neurodivergence or fertility challenges.

Individual Well-being & Sanctuary: A relationship is only as healthy as the two individuals in it. Inspired by long-standing traditions of marital preparation, this modern approach is vital for any long-term commitment—whether you are making a religious commitment or a non-religious one.

The Experience

Completely Private: This is not a group session. It is a three-hour intensive focused entirely on your unique relationship dynamic.

Expert Support: You benefit from a facilitator who understands the common challenges couples face and helps you navigate them before they become obstacles.

Collaborative & Light-hearted: We explore serious subjects in a way that is engaging and supportive.

Accessible: Sessions are held at my practice in Midleton, Co. Cork, or online for your convenience.

"A relationship cannot make you happy; you make your relationship happy. My goal is to give you the skills to do exactly that."

Secure Your Future Together

Don't leave the success of your most important project to chance. Set yourselves up for a mature, lasting love that continues to thrive long after the initial excitement of your new transition.